Peb tau teem caij raws li qhov peb nyiam lossis tsis nyiam, tab sis peb nthuav tawm ntawm rooj plaub thiab tsis yog. Nws yog ib qho nyuaj heev rau cov neeg los mus hais txog kev tsis ncaj ncees. Ib qho teeb meem: kev ncaj ncees yog ib yam uas ib txwm tsis yooj yim thiab tob tob. Thiab peb tab tom tham hnub no, yog tias ib tug neeg tsis to taub, txog kev thuam. Lub npe no yog dab tsi thiab nws cov lus txhais li cas, peb yuav xav txog yam tsis muaj ncua.
Meaning
Ntau npaum li cas ntawm kev tes hauj lwm ntawm txhua tus neeg muaj kev thov? Tej zaum ntau, tab sis txawm tias qhov kev paub dhau los no yog tripled, nws tseem yuav tsis pab tsim cov theoretically qhov kev thuam yog dab tsi. Tab sis peb tsis tas yuav nyuaj heev, vim peb muaj phau ntawv txhais lus piav qhia. Nws yuav ua tej hauj lwm nyuaj no rau peb. Nyob rau hauv ib phau ntawv zoo, cov ntsiab lus hauv qab no ntawm lo lus "reproach" yog sau: "Kev hais tawm ntawm kev tsis txaus siab, kev tsis pom zoo, kev iab liam."
Raws li koj tuaj yeem pom, phau ntawv txhais lus tau tso cov lus nug ntawm kev ncaj ncees ntawm kev thov rau tib neeg, thiab yog li ntawd. Nws txoj hauj lwm yog kho cov ntsiab lus dav dav ntawm lo lus, thiab cia cov neeg siv khoom thiab cov neeg nyob hauvnrog lawv tus kheej kev sib raug zoo nyuaj. Qhov tseem ceeb ntawm no yog kom nkag siab qhov kev thuam yog dab tsi, thiab cov lus nug ntawm lawv qhov zoo yog qhov teeb meem cais.
Synonyms
Feem ntau cov neeg xav paub lub ntsiab lus ntawm lo lus no lossis lo lus ntawd, thiab tom qab ntawd lawv xav paub txog cov lus piv txwv, uas yog, cov lus uas muaj cov ntsiab lus sib sib zog nqus. Peb cov ntaub ntawv tam sim no tsis muaj kev zam. Peb tau muab tso ua ke ib daim ntawv teev cov synonyms rau lo lus "reproach":
- note;
- liam;
- tawm tsam;
- nitpicking.
Raws li koj pom, yog tias koj tsis suav cov lus cognate hauv cov npe, daim ntawv yuav tsis nplua nuj. Thiab nws yog qhov tsis txaus ntseeg tias txhua qhov kev sib txuas lus feem ntau qhia txog kev tsis ncaj ncees ntawm kev thuam, thiab qhov no tsis yog peb lub tswv yim, tab sis kev tshuaj xyuas ntawm cov lus hais uas tuaj yeem hloov qhov khoom ntawm kev kawm. Tsuas yog cov lus hais tuaj yeem ua ncaj ncees thiab tsis yog. Thiab rau tag nrho cov lus, nws yog lub sij hawm los hu rau ib tug kws lij choj, vim hais tias lawv txhua tus dais lub foob ntawm lub ntsiab lus tsis zoo. Zoo kawg li cov lus tsis yog neeg, tsis tas yuav qhia lawv tus kheej.
Kev hais ncaj ncees thiab tsis ncaj ncees hauv kev kawm
Kev hloov pauv lus, tau kawg, pab kom nkag siab tias kev thuam yog dab tsi, tab sis ib lo lus nug ntxiv yuav tsum tau qhia meej: lawv ua tau zoo npaum li cas los ua cov cuab yeej kev kawm? Tau kawg, cov niam txiv feem ntau yuav luag thuam lawv cov menyuam thiab qhia lawv qhov kev tsis txaus siab ncaj qha, yam tsis muaj bluntness. Cov kev kho mob zoo li no ua rau tus menyuam raug mob, tab sis kev kawm, hauv paus ntsiab lus, yog ib txoj hauv kev ua phem rau xwm. Kev kawm txhais tau tiastxwv. Tab sis cov teeb meem, pawg ntawm qhov zoo thiab qhov phem, tuaj yeem zoo li lub tawb hlau los ntawm ib sab ntawm tus menyuam yaus, lossis lawv tuaj yeem zoo li lub rooj zaum hlau uas muaj rooj zaum hauv cov ntaub, uas tsawg kawg nws yog qhov zoo rau zaum.
Txhua yam no yog cuam tshuam ncaj qha rau lub ntsiab lus ntawm peb qhov kev sib tham. Vim tus menyuam nkag siab lub ntiaj teb los ntawm cov kev txwv thiab kev tso cai uas tau muab rau nws los ntawm nws niam nws txiv saum toj no. Yog li, yog tias koj yuav tsum thuam tus menyuam tiag tiag nrog ib yam dab tsi, koj yuav tsum ua nws, ntawm ib sab, maj mam, thiab ntawm qhov tod tes, piav qhia meej tias yog vim li cas nws thiaj ua txhaum. Thiab yog, los ntawm txoj kev, ib qho kev rau txim yuav tsum tsis yog cov lus qhia - "tsis hais lus", tab sis nkag siab thiab lees txais. Txawm hais tias insults nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no tseem yuav zam tsis tau. Tab sis txoj kev hais lus no yuav tsis tso ib tug me nyuam nrog rau qhov seem ntawm qhov kev tsis ncaj ncees ntawm qhov tshwm sim.
Tom qab peb tau txheeb xyuas cov lus nug ntawm qhov kev thuam yog dab tsi, nws yuav tsum tau hais tias: qhov no tsis yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev sib txuas lus nrog tib neeg. Yog tias koj hais lus lossis pov rau ib tus neeg, ces nws yuav tsum tau txiav txim siab kom, ntawm ib sab, tus neeg tawm tsam tsis zoo li ruam, thiab ntawm qhov tod tes, tus tiv thaiv nkag siab tias nws raug foob. Tab sis tsuav yog tib neeg tsis tau kov yeej lawv txoj kev xav, kev thuam tsis ncaj ncees yuav tshwm sim, txawm li cas los xij.
