Tsuas yog tib neeg ruam thiab lub ntiaj teb no tsis muaj kawg. Txawm hais tias kuv tsis paub meej txog qhov thib ob”- kab lus no ntawm Einstein yog ib qho piv txwv zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev zais sarcasm. Nws yog dab tsi? Sarcasm, piv txwv uas muaj ntau nyob rau hauv lub vev xaib, txhais tau hais tias yog kev hais lus thuam, uas qhib nrog kev txiav txim siab zoo, tab sis feem ntau muaj qhov tsis zoo. Lub ntsiab lus ntawm kev ua siab ntev thiab hnyav yog, raws li txoj cai, qee qhov tshwm sim lossis tib neeg. Thiab ib qho piv txwv ntawm sarcasm nyob txhua qhov chaw qhia kev ntxub thiab kev npau taws. Cov neeg uas siv cov nqe lus no ua rau nws cuam tshuam rau lwm tus, lossis lawv tau tawm tsam qee qhov xwm txheej tsis zoo rau lawv. Ib tug kws kho mob neuroscientist ntawm University of California lub npe hu ua Katherine Rankin tau ua pov thawj tias yog hais tias sarcasm yog lom zem thiab tsis zoo snarky, ces nws ua lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb hauv tib neeg kev sib raug zoo. Raws li nws txoj kev tshawb fawb, cov neeg uas muaj kev puas tsuaj parahippocampal gyrus tsis tuaj yeem nkag siab sarcasm. Nws kuj yog ib qho nyuaj rau kev nkag siab rau cov neeg muaj mob taub hau thiabdementia, uas yuav ua rau lawv cov tshuaj tiv thaiv tsis txaus.
Piv txwv ntawm kev hais lus ntawm kev ua haujlwm
Tus thawj tswj hwm lossis tus thawj saib xyuas haujlwm siv lus hnyav los tswj hwm nws cov tub txib. Cov kws tshawb fawb tau pom tias cov lus ceeb toom caustic los ntawm kev tswj hwm ua kom lub luag haujlwm ntawm tus neeg ua haujlwm thiab tso cai rau nws saib cov teeb meem los ntawm ntau lub kaum ntse ntse. Piv txwv li: “Koj puas xav tias qhov project no yuav yeej qhov kev sib tw? Kuv tsis nkag siab qhov teeb meem yog dab tsi? Kuv xav tsis thoob tias tus neeg uas tau txais ob txoj kev kawm siab dua vam tias yuav muaj kev txaus siab rau nws cov ntawv sau los ntawm cov neeg siv khoom muaj peev xwm! " Lossis: “Darling, Kuv pom tias koj cov plaub hau ci ntsa iab thiab koj ob lub qhov muag tab tom dov languidly, tab sis qhov no yog txoj haujlwm, tsis yog qhov chaw rau hnub! Thiab yog tias koj tsis xav tau nyiaj nrog cov tshuaj pleev ib ce, tig rau koj lub hlwb thiab saib deb ntawm koj qhov kev xav hauv daim iav, vim tsis muaj dab tsi los saib! " Tsuas yog tsis txhob siv funny sarcasm tom haujlwm. Cov lus xav tau uas tuaj yeem ua rau cov neeg ua haujlwm tsis zoo thiab tsis muaj kev nyab xeeb, uas yuav txhawb kom lawv txhim kho lawv txoj haujlwm zoo.
Piv txwv ntawm kev hais lus phem hauv tsev neeg kev sib raug zoo
Nyob hauv tsev neeg kev sib raug zoo, cov lus caustic muaj qhov chaw mus ncig. Tab sis nyob rau hauv manipulating cov me nyuam, sarcasm yuav tsum tsis txhob siv, raws li nws yuav ua tau heev heev, mus txog rau kev puas hlwb. Xav txog cov piv txwv muaj feem xyuam rau kev sib raug zoo ntawm poj niam txiv neej:
"Auj no honey! Koj tsis zoo li me ntsis ruam rau kuv! Koj ntse me ntsis!"
Nws: “Darling, tiag tiag, kuvtshiab hnav ris tsho zoo nkauj hais txog lub hauv siab? Nws: "Zoo, txhua yam kuv pom yog lub ntsws ntim!"
Nws: “Koj lub cim kos npe yog dab tsi? Nws: "Tsis nkag!"
"Puas yog tag nrho koj cov plaub hau plaub hau lossis tsuas yog koj lub qhov ntswg?"
Piv txwv sarcasm tuaj yeem muab tau ntev, vim muaj ntau yam hauv Is Taws Nem thiab cov ntaub ntawv tshwj xeeb. Yog tias koj xav tau, koj tuaj yeem ua koj tus kheej daim ntawv teev npe thiab siv nws nyob ntawm qhov xwm txheej. Qhov zoo dua qhov sarcasm, qhov nrawm dua koj tuaj yeem coj koj tus nrog sib ntaus mus rau lub xeev ntawm qhov tsis txaus ntseeg, thaum nws, ntshai kev thuam tshiab, yuav tsis tawm tsam. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, nws qib ntawm kev hwm tus kheej txo qis thiab qhov kev xav ntawm qhov tsis tseem ceeb tshwm sim, uas, dhau los, ua rau xa mus rau tus tswj hwm.
