Kev sim thiab kev sim tos tos peb tag nrho peb lub neej. Yog tsis muaj exaggeration, peb muaj peev xwm hais tias nyob rau hauv nees nkaum-thawj xyoo pua, lub hav zoov ntawm ib tug neeg ntawm civilization yog tas li ua nyuaj. Kev xeem, kev npaj txhij thiab kev kuaj kev paub pib los ntawm qib kindergarten. Nrog tsis muaj hnub xaus.
Cia peb nco txog peb cov jitters ua ntej mus xeem - txawm nws kawm tiav los yog nkag … Tab sis qhov no tsuas yog thaum pib. Tom qab ntawd yuav muaj cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv, daim diploma, ib tug neeg muaj ib tug thib ob, thib peb siab, postgraduate, MBA … Nyob rau ntau theem ntawm kev ua hauj lwm, ib tug yuav tsum xeem nyob rau hauv ib tug txawv teb chaws lus. Yuav ua li cas to taub dab tsi tactics ntawm tus cwj pwm thiab npaj tswv yim xaiv?
Tau kawg, ua ntej kev xeem, koj yuav tsum txiav txim siab txog ntau yam teeb meem uas yuav raug them. Raws li txoj cai, txawm tias thaum kawg kev xeem ntawv hauv tsev kawm qib siab, cov dej num raug txwv, thiab cov kev paub yuav tsum tau teev ua ntej. Dab tsi koj yuav tsum tau xeem thaum nkag, koj tuaj yeem paub ua ntej. Txhua lub tsev kawm ntawv lossisLub tsev kawm ntawv, tau kawg, muaj nws tus kheej cov cai thiab cov cai, txawm li cas los xij, nws muaj peev xwm thiab tsim nyog kom paub txog qhov ntim thiab lo lus ntawm cov lus nug thiab cov dej num, mus yuav phau ntawv qhia kev kawm tsawg kawg ib xyoos ua ntej nkag.
Txawm hais lus ntxhi thiab zaj dab neeg ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm uas muaj kev paub qhia peb txog kev xeem ntawv rau tus kws qhia ntawv tshwj xeeb, koj yuav tsum tau npaj rau nws. Qhov kev npaj zoo tshaj plaws yog npaj thiab nyob twj ywm. Hauv ib hmo peb yuav tsis txav roob thiab nyeem tsib caug phau ntawv. Cov kws qhia ntawv muaj peev xwm pib lawv cov chav kawm nrog ib zaj dab neeg hais txog yuav ua li cas thiaj xeem tau qhov kev kawm no. Raws li kev xav, kev xav tsis thoob tsis suav nrog.
Txawm li cas los xij, koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias txawm tias paub yuav ua li cas xeem, thiab npaj tau 100%, peb tsis muaj kev tiv thaiv los ntawm lub sijhawm kawm. Tus sau tau rov pom cov tub ntxhais kawm npaj ua tsis tiav vim tus kws qhia ntawv muaj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo lossis lub siab tsis zoo. Qhov tseeb, peb txhua tus yog tib neeg thiab nws nyuaj rau kev thov kom muaj lub hom phiaj ntawm tus kws qhia ntawv. Kev ntsuam xyuas nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm kev sau ntawv lossis kev xeem hauv computer yog tsom meej rau kev tshem tawm "tib neeg yam" thiab kev ntsuas tsis ncaj ncees. Txawm li cas los xij, ua ntej koj mus xeem - qhov ncauj lossis sau - koj yuav tsum tau mloog.
Ib qho ntawm cov lus qhia feem ntau yog: tsis txhob poob dej. Qhov no txhais li cas hauv kev xyaum? Txawm hais tias koj tsis tau npaj txhij rau tag nrho cov ntim ntawm cov khoom, koj tseem paub ib, ob, peb lossis ntau cov ncauj lus kom ntxaws. Thiab daim duab ntawm yuav ua li cas xeem dhau ib qho kev xeem feem ntau nyob rau hauv kev nthuav qhialub teeb pom kev zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev paub thiab tuaj yeem nkaum qhov tsis paub. Txawm hais tias lo lus nug yog kab lus li cas, yog tias koj tsis paub meej cov lus teb, sim los nrog ib lub ntsiab lus uas koj paub. Kos qhov sib piv, koom nrog, sib piv.
Ntau zaus lub siab xav ntawm tus tub kawm ntawv muaj kev ntseeg siab lossis tus tub kawm ua rau tus kws kuaj mob. Hloov pauv, ua kom pom tias koj nyob ntawm qhov kawg, ntawm qhov poob, tam sim ntawd ua rau tus cwj pwm tsis zoo. Tham kom ntau li ntau tau. Ib zaug ntxiv, kev puas siab puas ntsws, qhov no ua haujlwm zoo dua li rub "pincers" yam tsawg kawg ib lo lus los ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm uas tsis mloog lus. Kom tus kws ntsuam xyuas hais tias "ua tsaug, txaus" es tsis txhob sim kom koj tham.
Ib qho zoo nkauj kuj tseem ceeb heev. Cov khaub ncaws stale, wrinkled tsos tsis tuaj yeem piav qhia los ntawm qhov tseeb tias "Kuv tsis tau pw ib hmos, kuv kawm." Ua ntej koj mus xeem, koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau pw txaus thiab tuaj tshiab thiab huv si. Thiab tsis txhob overdo nws nrog sedatives. Lawv tuaj yeem muaj zog heev, thiab tsis txhob ntshai, koj tsuas yog poob tswj koj tus kheej xwb. Thiab txoj cai tseem ceeb tshaj plaws: nco ntsoov tias txhua qhov kev ntsuam xyuas tsis yog qhov kawg ntawm lub ntiaj teb, tsis yog kev tua, tsis yog qhov xwm txheej, txawm hais tias feem ntau zoo li ntawd. Qhov no tsuas yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm qee theem ntawm kev tau txais kev paub. Thiab los ntawm thiab loj, deb ntawm qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - lub neej nws tus kheej yuav npaj qhov kev sim tiag tiag rau koj.
