Tsis muaj lwm yam xwm txheej hauv cov tub ntxhais kawm lub neej yog pob tw ntawm ntau yam lus tso dag raws li kev sib tham. Qhov no yog qhov nkag siab: cov tub ntxhais kawm zoo siab tam sim poob tag nrho kev ua siab loj thaum lawv yuav tsum teb rau qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev ua neej dawb dawb thoob plaws lub semester. Thiab ntawm no nws hloov tawm kom yooj yim dua rau cov neeg nyob hauv nws cov tsev kawm qib siab nws yog ib txwm ua kom tswj hwm kev kawm tau zoo thoob plaws hauv lub xyoo kawm ntawv. Yuav ua li cas thawj zaug tsis yog qhov kawg?
Selective perfectionism
Ua ntej tshaj, tsis txhob ntshai. Tau kawg, muaj cov kws qhia ntawv uas yog "cov neeg ua ntshav" thiab cov lus nug uas nyuaj rau tsim. Tau kawg, nws tsis yooj yim sua kom kawm txhua yam. Cov ntaub ntawv kawm ntawm cov tsev kawm ntawv feem ntau suav nrog tsis muaj tseeb txawm tias los ntawm qhov pom ntawm lub cev muaj peev xwm ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm. Txawm li cas los xij, koj qhov kev kawm tau zoo me ntsis rau kev vam meej yav tom ntej. Thiab qhov no yog kev tshawb fawb los ntawm Asmeskas cov kws tshawb fawb, thiab hauv Tebchaws Meskas, qib thiab kev tshawb fawb tau raug coj los siv ntau dua. Yog li, yog tias tus menyuam kawm ntawv tau txais daim diploma- theem ntawm cov nyiaj tau los nws yuav muaj yog kwv yees ib yam li ntawm lwm cov kawm tiav ntawm tib lub tsev kawm ntawv. Yog li tsis txhob maj mus rau cov tub ntxhais kawm zoo, kev sib kho yog ib qho kev kho zoo rau kev ua kom zoo. Nws yog txaus kom ua tau zoo nyob rau hauv dav dav thiab ib tug zoo heev me nyuam kawm ntawv nyob rau hauv tej yam kev kawm nyiam.
muaj qhov sib txawv
Ua tib zoo mloog ntau dua rau cov kws tshaj lij thiab ua kom muaj kev sib haum xeeb ntawm "load". Yog tias koj tau txais daim ntawv pov thawj qhia ntawv, tus tswv hauj lwm caustic feem ntau yuav saib koj cov qhab nia hauv cov kev kawm thiab cov txheej txheem qhia. Tab sis yuav ua li cas koj kawm sociology lossis philosophy yog nyob ntawm koj. Kho "load khoom" raws li lub sijhawm los nthuav koj lub qab ntug. Thiab tsis txhob ntseeg txhua tus uas hais tias qhov kev sib kho yog qhov xwm txheej txaus ntshai. Kho nws ua ib txoj hauv kev los sim koj qhov kev paub tob.
Ob hom tub ntxhais kawm uas tau qhab nia siab
Ib tug tub kawm ntawv theem siab tsis zoo ib yam li cov menyuam kawm ntawv theem siab. Hauv cov tsev kawm ntawv qib siab, cov tub ntxhais kawm tau zoo dhau los ua cov neeg muaj txiaj ntsig zoo uas pom nws yooj yim kawm (ib haiv neeg tsawg), lossis cov neeg ua haujlwm uas tsis pom lub neej uas tsis cuam tshuam nrog kev kawm (xws li feem ntau ntawm cov neeg tau txais daim ntawv pov thawj liab). Cov qeb thib ob yog qhov nyiam heev rau cov tswv ntiav uas xav tau cov neeg ua yeeb yam zoo yam tsis tas yuav muaj tswv yim. Yog li kev sib tham tsis yog kev sib tw hauv siab, thiab lub zog tsawg dua koj siv rau kev khib, ntau lub zog koj tau tawm mus rau qhov ua tiav tiag tiag.
Ntau tus menyuam kawm ntawv muaj kev lom zem hauv tsev kawm ntawv, txawm hais tias nws yuav ntse dua los kawm tsawg dua,tab sis pib tau txais kev paub hauv kev ua haujlwm tiag tiag. Cov tswv lag luam nyiam cov tub ntxhais kawm uas twb tau "swm phom" hauv lawv qhov tshwj xeeb thiab tsis ntshai. Xws li cov kws tshwj xeeb tsis tas yuav tsum tau retrained, lawv yog cov khoom tiav lawm. Tau kawg, kev kawm yuav tsum yog qhov zoo kom ib tus neeg tuaj yeem kawm paub ua haujlwm li cas. Tab sis feem ntau, feem ntau tshwj xeeb, kev paub dhau los yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau kev xaiv cov neeg sib tw. Thaum kawm, koj tuaj yeem ua haujlwm ua haujlwm yam tsis tau them nyiaj, nws ua rau nws tus kheej.
Thaum saib lub sijhawm sib tham, tsis txhob poob siab. Feem ntau lub sij hawm npaj yog txaus yog tias koj tau tsawg kawg sau cov lus qhuab qhia thiab tuaj koom feem ntau ntawm cov rooj sib tham. Thaum kawg ntawm chav kawm, koj yuav ua tau zoo ntawm kev xeem kom koj yuav luag tsis txhob txhawj.
