Peb txhua tus tsawg kawg ib zaug hauv lub neej yuav tsum tiv thaiv daim ntawv pov thawj. Qhov xwm txheej no ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab ntau thiab pw tsaug zog hmo ntuj rau hauv peb lub neej. Yuav ua li cas npaj rau ib tug neeg uas muaj daim ntawv pov thawj tiv thaiv ntawm nws lub qhov ntswg? Yuav ua li cas rau impress cov neeg tuaj saib, thiab tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov commission? Cia peb kawm saib.
Nyob hauv kab lus no, kuv xav xav txog ob yam tseem ceeb ntawm lub ncauj lus no. Thawj qhov cuam tshuam ncaj qha rau qhov thesis, thiab qhov thib ob yog cuam tshuam tshwj xeeb rau kev hais lus ntawm tib neeg.
Yog li, koj muaj koj txoj haujlwm hauv koj txhais tes. Koj puas tau sau koj tus kheej? Nws yog qhov zoo dua yog tias cov lus teb zoo. Kuv ntseeg tias txoj haujlwm no tsis tuaj yeem hu ua kev kawm, qhov twg cov ntawv sau, kev tswj hwm, cov ntawv teev lus thiab txawm tias cov ntawv no raug txiav txim thiab rov yuav khoom. Qhov no tsis yog kawm. Tab sis peb digress. Yog li, koj tau sau ib txoj haujlwm thiab koj paub nws yuav luag ntawm lub siab. Qhov tsuas yog qhov uas tshuav yog kev tiv thaiv ntawm thesis. Raws li peb paub, cov txheej txheem no yuav siv sijhawm li kaum feeb, thiab lub sijhawm no ib daim ntawv ntawm cov ntawv luam tawm yuav tsis haum. Koj yuav tsum shrink. Koj puas paub qhov nws hais hauvua hauj lwm, yam kev tshawb fawb tau ua, cov lus xaus tau kos. Qhov no yog qhov yuav tsum tau hais. Ua ntej, koj yuav tsum hais txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm cov ncauj lus uas tau xaiv, tom qab ntawd tham txog cov haujlwm ua tiav thiab cov txheej txheem siv. Tab sis qhov tseem ceeb ntawm koj daim ntawv tshaj tawm yog qhov ua tau zoo thiab cov lus xaus. Ntawm no nws tsim nyog nyob rau hauv kev nthuav dav ntxiv ntawm ntau yam teeb meem uas cuam tshuam nrog kev tiv thaiv daim ntawv pov thawj. Kev nthuav qhia yuav yog txoj hauv kev xwb.
Zoo muaj daim ntawv qhia thiab. Tom qab ntawd txhua tus tswv cuab ntawm pawg thawj coj yuav tuaj yeem muaj txhua tus lej ncaj qha rau ntawm lawv lub qhov muag, nws yuav yooj yim dua rau lawv kom ntes cov ntsiab lus thiab cov ntsiab lus ntawm tus neeg hais lus cov lus. Yog tias tus neeg hais lus pib pom tias nws muaj sijhawm ntxiv, nws yuav tsum tsuas yog tawm tswv yim ntawm qhov kev nthuav qhia slides ntev me ntsis, ntxiv nws cov lus xaus nrog qee cov kab lus dav dav.
Tab sis yuav tsum ua li cas yog tias kev tiv thaiv tom ntej ntawm daim ntawv pov thawj ua rau muaj kev txaus ntshai tiag tiag vim ntshai hais lus ntawm cov neeg mloog? Ntawm no, cov kws paub txog kev puas siab puas ntsws qhia cov hauv qab no:
- npaj rau qhov ua tau zoo ua ntej, ua tib zoo rov xyaum txhua yam txog cov lus nug; yog tias koj yuav tsum tiv thaiv koj daim ntawv kawm tiav hauv lus Askiv, ces "rub" cov lus no kom zoo dua lossis tsawg dua kev sib tham;
- koj yuav tsum tuaj yeem ua yam tsis muaj ntawv nrog cov ntawv nyeem: txhua yam ntaub ntawv yuav tsum nyob hauv lub taub hau ntawm tus neeg hais lus; thiab nws yog qhov tsim nyog tias nws yuav tsum muaj nyob rau hauv txoj hauv kev, uas yog, xav tau "zoo meej" txoj kev npaj;
- txhawm rau txo cov teebmeem ntawm adrenaline ntawm koj lub cev,uas rages nyob rau hauv nws thaum muaj kev ntxhov siab, koj yuav tsum imperceptibly strain ib co nqaij, piv txwv li, nyob rau hauv koj nraub qaum los yog ob txhais ceg, kom koj lub cev;
- kev tsis txaus siab yog ib qho kev daws teeb meem zoo, tab sis tsis yog ib txwm ua tau zoo: ntawm no, cov kws tshaj lij qhia kom tham nrog koj tus kheej thiab ua kom ntseeg siab thaum kawg tsis muaj dab tsi yuav tsum ntshai thiab txhua yam zoo.
Cov lus qhia ntxiv - xyaum. Rau ib qho kev hais lus (txawm hais tias nws yog kev tiv thaiv ntawm daim ntawv pov thawj lossis kev nthuav qhia ntawm ib qhov project, ib lo lus ntawm kev sib tham ntawm niam txiv los yog toast ntawm lub rooj tshoob) nws tsis tuaj yeem ua tus hais lus zoo. Sim "hais lus nrog cov neeg tuaj saib" ntau zaus - thiab nws tus kheej yuav maj mam qhia koj coj tus cwj pwm.
